I was going to start off saying all of the things I've done this week--school and planning for the trip--but I would rather write about my travel-filled last three years.
As it says in my (1200 word or less) "About me" in the right-hand column, I am from San Diego and graduated from the University of San Diego in Spanish Literature and International Relations in May 2007. My best friend, Ryan, and I had planned on moving to Playa Jaco, Costa Rica, in September but I had itchy feet and needed to get out and see the world for the summer beforehand. I had found an advertisement from the UNDP on a Teach English as a Second Language Worldwide website to teach English during "summer" in "Valparaiso," Chile. I put those two words in quotations because it was neither summertime in South America nor was I teaching in Valparaiso--but actually in the tiny town of Santa Maria, in the Valparaiso Region. In Santa Maria, where I was assigned to live for ten weeks, I was placed to live with a family of former-exiles during Pinochet and placed to teach with a lady whose husband was the mayor of the town during the dictatorship. To make a two-week-long story short, the two sides could not stand one another and I felt in the middle, ultimately deciding to have myself relocated to Maipu, a suburb of Santiago. I stayed the remainder of my trip there teaching but ended up having to go home two weeks early because my friend, Katie, from New Zealand, who was watching my two dogs and my house in San Diego, had gotten caught working as a food server under the table and was in the process of being deported. I flew home in time to talk to Katie through a glass wall in a prison near the US/Mexico border where they kept deportees, but I still need to go on a trip to visit her in New Zealand and give her a real hug after that terrible ordeal!
Once I got home from Chile, my family thought that the trip had deterred me from moving to Costa Rica. But they were wrong--I moved to Costa Rica in September 2007, with my two dogs, Max and Missy. (Max, now almost 8 years old, is a half-doberman/half-rottweiler who weighs 95 pounds but thinks he is a lap dog. Missy is just over 7 years old and is a rat terrier.) We flew down first, then Ryan moved down two weeks later. We lived in Jaco for almost exactly a year, and I'd have to say that was one of the best years of my life. I taught home school three hours a day, four days a week, to a family with three awesome kids from LA; Ryan and I both learned how to surf decently; and we traveled all over the country--on at least one weekend of every month we would take a few days and camp with the dog in some new place in Costa Rica. We also went on an amazing trip to Cuba and a few to Baja, where my family vacations a few times a year.
It was amazing, but all good things must come to an end. Ryan and I decided that we were "over" Jaco and moving to Buenos Aires, Argentina. After completely dismantling the year we had spent establishing a life here, we all (Ryan, Max, Missy and me) moved to BA. We got there in September, so it was springtime, but it was not at all what we had thought we'd wanted. We ended up packing up two weeks later and going back to San Diego to regroup.
Ryan ended up moving home to Texas to work with her mom and brother in their family business. I decided that I would give Costa another try. I decided to enroll in Outward Bound Costa Rica, for their 60-day leadership course, where they certify you to be a wilderness instructor and at the end of the course, if they like you, you are offered an internship with the NGO for 90 days. I did the course, which was one of the hardest two months of my life, and got certified in wilderness medical response, to be a land instructor, a lifeguard, and a white water raft guide. At the end of the course, I was one of two females and five males to be asked to return for the internship. Although my dogs had been in San Diego, being watched by a friend, I decided to go home, get the dogs, drive back down, and do the internship.
Ryan met me in San Diego a couple days after Christmas 2008 and we spent the next two weeks driving through Baja, mainland Mexico, Guatemala, El Salvador, Honduras, Nicaragua and into Costa Rica, in the 4 Runner with the two dogs. Ry went home mid-January and I started my internship at the beginning of February.
This is where I meet Mike in my story...I was his "instructor" (I was an intern!) and he was my student. He is five years younger than me and extremely shy when you first meet him, so we hardly spoke the first phase of the course, which was the hiking portion. After surfing for a week in Playa Hermosa we started to get flirty, then by scuba diving in Panama, I had a full-out crush on Mike. We weren't a couple but I guess we annoyed everyone else on the trips with us to no end. I decided to leave course after the river rafting and kayaking phase of the trip, so as to avoid more unnecessary drama from Mike and my flirting. Besides, he'd already told me that he was moving to Playa Hermosa with me after course was over, and after I picked him up from Santa Teresa, where he would be with his dad for the five days following the end of Outward Bound.
After I picked him up and met his (really cool) dad, Mike and I lived together in Hermosa for four months. By this point, I'd found out I had gotten in to University for Peace (I applied back in February right before starting my internship with Outward Bound) and it was nice to have a summer between Outward Bound and graduate school at a beautiful beach in Costa Rica with an amazing new boyfriend. Once school started, I moved up to Ciudad Colon and Mike stayed at the beach for a few months. The commute to see one another was too much, so he moved up in October. We got a third puppy right after he moved up, Maecito, who is a min-pin and now seven months old.
We had both decided that when I was done with classes, we'd move to San Diego in May, after a road trip home. So I got in contact with an old professor at USD and set up a summer internship with the Trans-Border Institute, an NGO that works with binational collaboration between Mexico and the US. After a few months away from the waves and with nothing to do other than get an online ESL certification and play with the pups, Mike and I decided it would be best for him to move to San Diego a semester early to start establishing residency for in-state tuition and to get back to living by the ocean.
We've been living apart since winter break, but luckily there is Skype and my program was fortunate enough to get a three week spring break. He will be here this Thursday morning and, like we keep saying, we won't be living apart anytime again soon!
Whew...there are lots more details in between but I've never actually sat down and written a timeline of life after undergrad before. So there it is.
I need to work on my paper for my propaganda course for the rest of the day and was really planning to write what I had been doing this past week to plan for the trip, but I will do that tomorrow. For now, here are a few pictures of the last few years...
- The 1st pic is of me with my class in Maipu, Chile. (Note the winter clothing indoors)
- The 2nd pic is of Ry and me at a creamy light blue-looking waterfall in north-central Costa Rica, near Volcano Tenorio.
- The 3rd pic is on the hiking phase of the course when I did my internship with Outward Bound Costa Rica. (Mike is the tall one in the middle of the group)
- The 4th pic is Mike and me in the pool of a waterfall off of a dirt road near Montezuma, Costa Rica that we stopped off at on a camping/ road trip.


